WHAT DO THEY WANT IN THE BEDROOM? / Adult Talk With Mature Filipinas

This is Part 2 of Pea's roundtable with three mature Filipinas — Ruth, Sheila, and Grace — tackling the bedroom topic that Part 1 left as a cliffhanger. Pea runs through questions about sexual preferences, attitudes toward porn, self-gratification, kinks, and fantasies in a rapid-fire format that gets increasingly candid. The women's answers reveal a mix of adventurousness, cultural conservatism, and surprising specificity.

Filipinas are adventurous in the bedroom, not vanilla ​

• All three women agreed: Filipinas are adventurous, not just vanilla
• This was stated confidently and unanimously

Does size matter? ​

• Sheila: "I don't think size matters — it's more on the performance. The grading system is the performance"
• Ruth: Size doesn't matter, "although if it's big, it's a bonus — it's always a bonus"

Attitudes toward bedroom toys ​

• Grace's take: men who bring toys want "wild sex and experimentation to lose more calories"
• Grace then rattled off specific calorie counts per position: missionary burns 143 calories for men but only 44 for women ("because they're the ones doing the work — you also lose 44 just by laying down"); the "turner butter" position burns 211 calories for men, equivalent to a squat for women at 211; doggy burns 179 for men
• When Pea asked how she knows all this: "I read books — it sticks in my mind"
• On whether Filipinas personally like toys: all three said no
• Ruth's reasoning: "When the person is already there, why would you need a toy?"
• Grace pointed out there are many ways to satisfy a woman beyond penetration: "If you are talented with your other parts, yes"

Self-gratification among Filipinas ​

• Culturally considered a sin in the Philippines
• Grace acknowledged some women do it because "the attainment is to have orgasm, and there are health benefits of orgasm"
• All agreed it's deeply taboo — not something you discuss even with friends
• "Some women would actually think they're committing a sin if they're doing that"

Oral gratification ​

• General consensus: women love receiving it — "who doesn't love that?"
• Ruth mentioned knowing someone who doesn't like it — possibly due to a bad first experience or something traumatic
• Grace suggested: "Maybe her first oral gratification wasn't good"

Filipino attitudes toward porn ​

• All agreed many Filipinos watch porn, driven by curiosity
• Even those under 18 watch it but "in a discreet manner" because it's taboo and you'll get judged
• Grace has watched out of curiosity but didn't like it — "It makes me laugh. I don't know why — it doesn't make me feel aroused"
• She found it off-putting, describing the women as looking "like pigs" and mentioning some content involving bestiality

Would it bother them if their man watches porn? ​

• All three: yes, it would bother them
• Grace's detailed reasoning: a man who's heavily into porn develops expectations that are too high; he adapts to masturbation rather than actual sex; "by the time we are into that act, it will affect his psychological aspect because his expectations are way too high"
• Sheila would be bothered but wouldn't demand he stop if it predated their relationship — she'd communicate openly that it bothers her
• Ruth would ask "why do you have to watch that?"
• When Pea asked what if he suggests watching together: "Why do we have to watch when we can do it?"

Thumbs up / thumbs down rapid-fire on kinks and fantasies ​

• Food in the bedroom (syrup, chocolate, strawberries): All three thumbs up
• Bondage: Ruth and Sheila said no/would freak out; Grace said yes — she likes to be blindfolded or tied to the four bedposts, and would also blindfold him, because "if one of your senses is blocked, the other senses function well — heightened sensation on other parts of your body"; she called it "one of my fantasies"
• BDSM / 50 Shades style: Grace likes it; Ruth and Sheila thumbs down — "We can enjoy it without doing that"
• Dating a guy with a foot fetish: Generally okay — "I don't mind, especially if he likes my feet"
• Crossdressing (a man wearing women's clothing): No across the board — "I like my dress to be mine — you might dress better than I do"
• Furries (dressing up as animals): No from everyone
• Role-playing (nurse/patient, student/teacher, boss/employee): All three were into it
  • Grace already owns a nurse costume
  • The appeal: "It's going outside of the box, outside your character — when you assume a role, you leave the person behind you, so you can be wild"
  • Sheila on the boss/employee scenario: "It adds excitement — like 'you've been bad, I'm going to punish you because your marketing strategy failed'"
• Voyeurism (watching or being watched): No to being watched — "You get conscious if someone is watching"
  • Grace revealed a specific fantasy: a friend abroad told her about live sex shows where you surrender all phones and cameras; she'd be curious to watch out of curiosity since "they don't know me and I don't know them" — but would never let anyone watch her
  • "I can't even do it total lights on, so how much more with somebody watching?"
• Threesomes (with a man or another woman): Unanimous hard no
  • "What is mine is mine"
  • "I want him to focus on me and I'll focus on him"
  • "It's a crowd"
  • Not even with the hottest person: "No thanks"

Where they see themselves in five years ​

• Ruth: wants to travel — possibly Asia or Europe
• Sheila: wants a successful business and someone to spend the rest of her life with — "I am 'announced' first" (establishing herself before finding a partner)
• Grace: thinks she'll have someone special for a long-term or lifetime partnership
• Pea: hopes to be married, possibly with kids though she's cautious about the expense — "I really have to think about it, but maybe someone to share my life with"
• All expressed hope for finding the right person, with Pea joking that he's "out there somewhere watching you"

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