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A MOST BEAUTIFUL FILIPINA - With An Amazing Story!

πŸ“… 2022-11-25⏱ 27:06
πŸ“… 2022-11-25 Β |Β  ⏱️ 27:06 Β |Β  πŸ‘οΈ 205.7K views Β |Β  πŸ‘ 11.4K likes Β |Β  πŸ’¬ 2K comments

Pea tracked down a stunningly beautiful woman she spotted during a previous street video where she was giving cash to locals. Expecting a lightweight "fluff piece," Pea instead uncovered the remarkable story of Maricel β€” a woman who grew up in extreme rural poverty in Cebu province, left home before she was a teenager, survived homelessness, forged documents to enter the workforce, and built a thriving ESL business before she was 18. This is Part 1 of a two-part interview; it ends on the cliffhanger that Maricel's abusive fiancΓ© threw her off a bridge.

Maricel's origins β€” extreme rural poverty in Cebu ​

  • Grew up in Balamban (a tiny town in Cebu province), "in the middle of nowhere"
  • No electricity, no roads, no access to anything β€” had to cross six rivers and climb up and down mountains just to reach the main road
  • One of 10 children β€” siblings spaced about 1–2 years apart
  • She was the 4th child
  • Despite the poverty, she credits her parents' strict discipline as the foundation for everything: wake up at 4 AM, collect firewood, fetch water β€” "like a military camp"
  • Hated it as a kid, but now sees it as the best training ground for her later success

Childhood dream of marrying a foreigner ​

  • Since grade school (around grade 3), Maricel had a dream of marrying a foreigner β€” even though there were zero foreigners in her mountain village
  • The dream started when she saw a Filipina in her area who had married a foreigner and had beautiful mixed twin kids
  • In grade 1, she followed the mixed-race children around because "they were so pretty, they were aliens to me"
  • She openly told classmates she wanted to marry a foreigner and got bullied relentlessly for it
  • When asked why she wanted a foreigner, her childhood answer was blunt: "Because it's big" β€” to which classmates lost their minds
  • She didn't care about the teasing and stuck to her goal

Leaving home at 11 ​

  • Made a promise to herself in grade 4: "As soon as I finish elementary, I'm leaving"
  • Left home at 11 after completing elementary school because her parents couldn't afford to send 10 children to school
  • Moved to the city (Cebu City) completely on her own
  • Was so sheltered from mountain life that she'd never seen cars before β€” stood frozen at a crosswalk watching people walk through traffic, unable to figure out how to cross the street
  • First job: working as a maid in someone's house (live-in domestic helper)

Homeless at 12 ​

  • While working as a maid and attending school as a working student (first year high school), she accidentally broke a glass window trying to climb in during lunch break when the owners were out
  • Panicked because as a poor child, she thought glass was enormously expensive ("we thought it was like diamonds")
  • Borrowed money, bought replacement glass, brought it back β€” but her boss was furious anyway
  • Got fired and lost both her job and her home in one day
  • Slept in the school that night at age 12
  • Eventually someone took her in, but it was a formative experience of total vulnerability

Working in Carbon Market and the wet market ​

  • After the maid job, worked in Cebu's Carbon Market (a large public market)
  • Worked in the wet market selling salt, soy sauce, and cooking oil β€” repacking products for resale
  • Was doing this at 15 while attending college on a full scholarship
  • The scholarship covered tuition but not transportation or food β€” her parents couldn't afford even the 50 pesos/day she needed for bus fare
  • In high school, she only had 5 pesos β€” 2 pesos for one-way fare, then walked home in the afternoon to save the return fare
  • Pea relates deeply β€” she had a nearly identical experience with poverty, working in markets, and barely affording school

Forging her birth certificate at 16 ​

  • At 16 (third or fourth year of high school), Maricel was fed up with domestic/market work
  • Changed her birth year on her NSO (National Statistics Office) certificate by hand with a pen β€” faked her age from 16 to 19
  • Pea compares her to Frank Abagnale (Catch Me If You Can)
  • Used the forged documents to apply for corporate jobs β€” scheduled four interviews in a single day
  • Landed a job as an executive assistant to a Japanese boss at an ESL (English as a Second Language) school in Cebu
  • Also worked weekends as a promo girl β€” car shows, product launches, modeling gigs
  • Was constantly told she was beautiful and pushed to join pageants; she participated in school competitions only because they added to her grades, not out of vanity β€” she genuinely didn't believe the compliments

Living independently at 15 ​

  • By third year of high school, moved into her own boarding house β€” shared a bed with roommates, but had her own space
  • Both Pea and Maricel lived independently by 15 β€” Pea also had a boarding house situation at the same age
  • Both agree the experience matured them and was ultimately positive despite the hardship

Building an ESL business at 17 ​

  • After six months as an executive assistant, watched her Japanese boss's ESL company grow rapidly
  • Was already self-studying IT and web development β€” learning coding, building landing pages
  • Used her job experience as a training ground, then quit to start her own ESL school
  • Built the website herself, marketed to international students (Korean, Chinese, Japanese β€” all nationalities, not just one group)
  • Hired native English-speaking teachers (she wasn't confident enough in her own English to teach)
  • Innovated by creating a homestay program: adult international students would come to Cebu, live in provided housing, and study English β€” combining accommodation with education
  • Nobody else was doing this model at the time, at least not at her scale
  • Within a year, expanded to running summer and winter camps with over 100 students

Pea and Maricel bond over shared experiences and Filipino English ​

  • Both grew up in poverty, worked in markets, lived alone as teenagers
  • Both discuss how Filipinos speak English but are taught by non-native teachers, leading to mispronunciations that stick for life
  • Example: "comfortable" pronounced as "comfort-ABLE" because that's how Filipino teachers say it; "hippopotamus" mispronounced
  • They note that Westerners/foreigners are NOT judgmental about Filipino English β€” but Filipinos are brutally judgmental of each other's English
  • Both encourage other Filipinos to just be confident and speak β€” people will understand

Maricel's work ethic philosophy ​

  • "When I work, I always give it my best β€” not to impress my boss or the people around me, but because it brings me fulfillment and makes me happy"
  • Extremely driven: "I don't want to die here poor" was her motivating thought since childhood

The abusive fiancΓ© β€” cliffhanger ending ​

  • Around age 18, Maricel got into a relationship with one of her ESL school's substitute teachers β€” a 45-year-old foreigner; she was his first fiancΓ©e
  • The relationship turned abusive β€” driven by extreme jealousy on his part
  • Physical abuse escalated: black eyes, hospital visits
  • Pea and Maricel discuss how jealousy destroys relationships β€” both agree trust and respect are the two foundations, with love building on top; neither believes in "love at first sight" (more like "lust/attraction at first sight")
  • Maricel reveals: "He threw me off the bridge" β€” the Cebu bridge
  • Part 1 ends on this cliffhanger, with Pea promising the full story in Part 2

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