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Filipinos And Skin Color - Are We Obsessed With Light Skin?

πŸ“… 2024-03-26⏱ 13:22
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Pea tackles the loaded question of whether Filipinos are racist, drawing on her 30+ years of living in the Philippines and being privy to conversations about race that Filipinos would never have with foreigners. She argues that the Philippine obsession with light skin is colorism rooted in class perception, not racism as Westerners understand it, and walks through the historical, economic, and cultural reasons why.

The core distinction: colorism vs. racism ​

  • Pea defines racism using the dictionary definition: prejudice or antagonism based on membership in a particular racial group
  • She argues this doesn't apply in the Philippines β€” Filipinos don't look at other races and assume stereotypical baggage ("blacks are this, whites are that"); in most cases they've never even heard the Western stereotypes
  • Filipinos don't view other races as having inherent deficiencies
  • The key reframe: "It's a light fetish, not a white fetish, and there's a big difference"
  • Filipinos admire lighter skin tones like those of Chinese and Koreans β€” it's not about glorifying Caucasians or trying to be white
  • In the West, talking about skin color automatically invokes race; in the Philippines, they're literally talking about your actual color

Why light skin = perceived wealth ​

  • The logic is straightforward: dark skin means you work outdoors, which almost guarantees you're not wealthy
  • This isn't an abstract concept in the Philippines β€” manual outdoor labor is still a very real marker of economic class, unlike in First World countries where almost nobody has to work in the sun
  • "The Philippines is all about perceived wealth β€” no one wants their daughter to marry a poor man because he doesn't add value to the family unit"
  • Pea references her interviews with Filipino men: when she told them foreigners prefer darker-skinned women, they responded "yes, the ones from poor families" β€” illustrating how deeply skin color and financial status are intertwined

Colonial and regional influences ​

  • 300+ years of Spanish colonization drilled in the message that Filipinos were inferior β€” the Spanish had the power, wealth, status, and lighter skin
  • If you could marry into Spanish bloodlines and produce lighter-skinned babies, you elevated your entire clan's status
  • The same dynamic applies to how Filipinos view Chinese, Japanese, and Korean neighbors β€” they're wealthier, so Filipinos want to emulate them

How this plays out in daily life ​

  • All Filipino movie stars, commercials, and billboards feature light-skinned actors; dark-skinned Filipinos rarely advertise products
  • The cosmetics section of any local pharmacy is packed with whitening creams and soaps, rows of products featuring women with "unnaturally white skin that'll remind you of a kabuki dancer"
  • From birth, Filipinos are taught "light is right" β€” parents generally want light-skinned babies because they know their kids will have more opportunities
  • Pea's personal example: she was rejected by an airline when she applied to be a stewardess, and they told her to her face it was because her skin was too dark
  • She looks back on it with humor: "I'm really glad they did because I wouldn't be here making videos if I was handing out stale sandwiches and warm soda at 30,000 feet"
  • From a Filipino standpoint, what happened to her wasn't racist β€” but from a Western perspective, it triggers all sorts of negative associations that don't apply in the Philippine context

Preferences aren't deal-breakers β€” analogies to other beauty standards ​

  • Pea compares the light-skin preference to how women generally prefer taller men, or how men typically prefer slimmer women β€” it's a beauty preference, not a deal-breaker
  • She notes that beauty standards change with the times: not long ago, thicker women were considered more attractive for the exact same class-status reason (bigger = could afford to eat more = wealthier), but now that most Westerners can eat as much as they want, slender became the standard
  • "Just because you don't have every single preferred trait doesn't mean you can't be incredibly successful here"
  • Her analogy: "A majority of men might prefer blondes with big boobs, but does that mean flat-chested brunettes can't get a date? Of course not"

What this means for foreign men of all races ​

  • For a Filipina, dating anyone from a First World country is a step up regardless of skin color β€” the wealth/status of being from a developed nation outweighs the color question
  • "If you're a black guy, you'll still be eating at the cool kids' table and you're not going to have any trouble at all when choosing a mate"
  • The exception: wealthier Filipinas who have traveled are less impressed by foreigners with light skin because they already have wealth; they often marry other Filipinos unless they meet a particularly high-status foreign man
  • Unless you're a high-value male, your chances of dating a rich Filipina are "about as good as finding fresh milk at a Filipino grocery store β€” not very good"

Caveats ​

  • Pea acknowledges Filipinos aren't a monolith β€” she's speaking about the majority view
  • She concedes there are surely some racist Filipinos, but the skin-tone obsession isn't a good example of racism
  • "You could certainly call us colorist, but the term racist isn't an accurate description"

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